girls, What did I do wrong?
There's this girl that I'm partially interested in. We talk and stuff at school, never out of school (except online) Today I went to a warehouse thing with Japanese collectibles (we're both japanese washed bastards) and somebody tapped my shoulder from behind. It was her and she said hi. (she was with her younger brother and I was by myself) We had that "What are you doing here" look on our faces because we never saw each other outside the school environment. She said "What are you doing here... are you stalking me?" or something like that. Not offensively though, I think playfully cause I'm we flirt often. We had so much tension between us that we both had to shyly say goodbye and try not to bump into each other. By the time I brought up the courage to talk to her, she was gone. Again, this is our first "out of school" enounter. I thought she was probably shy, and that's why she left. AND... she was the one to approach me (if she wasn't interested in me, she'd probably just go "Hey... it's THAT guy" to herself instead of going up to me) Or maybe I'm kidding myself? (_ _) don't know what to say when we see each other at school THE FUNNY THING WAS. I was planning to ask her that week if she knew what the warehouse was and if she wanted to go. WE BOTH WEREN'T PREPARED TO SEE EACH OTHER.
Public Comments
- Umm Im not seeing that you did anything wrong. It sounds like she likes you too tho
- u r a fag
- Don't worry about it. Talk to her at school on Monday.
- You didnt do anything wrong
- doesnt sound like u did anything wrong just ask her out already!
- Say hi and ask her if she comes there often. Talk her about it in school and see if she wants to go together someimte. Great first date environment
- Yeah, you didnt do anything wrong. Your just a shy type of person, you need to come out of the shell, get back that courage and see her out of school more often.
- why are u freaking out? u didnt do anything. and sounds like she likes you.
- She likes you! Actually, now you have the perfect chance to approach her. When you see her at school, you can bring up the warehouse thing, and maybe even ask her out from there.
- I think the first encounter was just awkward. She isn't shy because she went up to you herself, but she might think you like her since she joked about you being her stalker and the fact that you two like to flirt with each other at school. There is nothing wrong with you, it's just that she has to bend her head around you as just a student. Ask her why she left early the next time you see her, it's not the end of the world if you do.
- I saw nothing wrong ask her if she had fun if she talks to u at school again
- you did nothing wrong. Ask her out its obvious she likes you to
- You may have just made her nervous by not saying anything. When a girl who's shy likes you it takes a lot for her to come right up to you and say hello. Maybe you should just go ahead and tell her you're interested in her. Talk to her some more, hang out with her outside of school to see who she is without all her friends around. The tension between you too just means that clearly she's interested in you. Good luck!
- You did nothing wrong--although you probably could have worked up your courage and talked to her at the warehouse. Either way, she actually approached you, so I think next time you see her at school you should really take the initiative to talk to her, and yes, possible start by way of mentioning seeing her at the warehouse. Or not. That really depends on you. So main advice: be confident, take initiative, go for it. She's probably just as nervous about this as you are, and it would probably help if you just take some action.
- WTF's a japanese washed bastard!? & u didn't do anything wrong, shes shy, I should know I'm shy too.
- Haha funny how "fate" works. Maybe you guys are perfect for each other ;) Anyway, yes, I do believe she is interested. Like you said, she wouldn't have gone up to you if she didn't like you at all(at least as a friend). She would have most likely did her best to avoid you altogether. Also she did what any other girl would do if she saw her crush out of school. Don't worry about it, you did nothing wrong. Chances are she's feeling the same way, kind of like, "Oh my gosh, I can't believe I acted like such an idiot in front of him!" Trust me, you're fine. I think she definitely likes you more than a friend. If you want, you can casually mention it to her at school on Monday. Just be like, "So that was cool how we were both their at __________." Then play it by ear with her reaction. Most likely she'll be like - yeah, blah blah blah, why were you there?, etc. Good luck :)
Powered by Yahoo! Answers