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Did I do something wrong?

There's this girl that I'm partially interested in. We talk and stuff at school, never out of school (except online) Today I went to a warehouse thing with Japanese collectibles (we're both japanese washed bastards) and somebody tapped my shoulder from behind. It was her and she said hi. (she was with her younger brother and I was by myself) We had that "What are you doing here" look on our faces because we never saw each other outside the school environment. She said "What are you doing here... are you stalking me?" or something like that. Not offensively though, I think playfully cause I'm we flirt often. We had so much tension between us that we both had to shyly say goodbye and try not to bump into each other. By the time I brought up the courage to talk to her, she was gone. Again, this is our first "out of school" enounter. I thought she was probably shy, and that's why she left. AND... she was the one to approach me (if she wasn't interested in me, she'd probably just go "Hey... it's THAT guy" to herself instead of going up to me) Or maybe I'm kidding myself? (_ _) don't know what to say when we see each other at school THE FUNNY THING WAS. I was planning to ask her that week if she knew what the warehouse was and if she wanted to go. WE BOTH WEREN'T PREPARED TO SEE EACH OTHER.

Public Comments

1. nothing wrong
2. It just sounded like an awkward moment. Go talk to her at school about how awkward it was, you'll probably have a good laugh.
3. Haha, you're over analyzing. Yes she did approach you so she does hold an interest you, but don't guarantee that as what kind of interest. Knowing you two hold a common interest (unless it's just her brother's interest) bring it up to her at school and ask why she went. After that, if haven't already, introduce yourself and continue the conversation down that road. Don't go thinking straight about relationships and what not, just establish a friendship so that way you can learn about what else she likes. From then on when you feel that she trusts you and is comfortable with you, strike up the courage to go out together somewhere and maybe see a movie or something.
4. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. My guess is that you both are feeling the same way--each of you are kind of shy and don't know what the other is thinking. Maybe she's embarassed that she approached you at warehouse and now wants to see if you'll make the next move. You will never know if this could be the start of a relationship. The only way you'll know is if you take a risk and ask her out. If she says yes, GREAT! If she doesn't, remember that you still didn't do anything wrong. Hope this helps.