I rec'd a letter from an attorney for my 1st mortgage co (80/20 loan) saying they were going to foreclose on my home. This came as a surprise to me; I contacted the mortgage co asking for some type of loan modification and didn't receive a reply. I checked; in my state the attorney has to mail me a certified mailing, signature required foreclosure deed at least 30 days before putting the 1st ad in the paper advertising a foreclosure auction on my home. They have to place 3 consecutive ads at least 21 days before the auction, so from the certified letter to date of auction is at least 51 days. No one was home to sign for the certified mailing and it was never delivered. I notified their attorney (before I realized the importance of that mailing) that we had not rec'd it and to please redeliver. They ignored me. In the meantime, I continued to try to contact the mortgage co. Our phones don't work consistently so I was mailing faxing and USPS mailing them (incl Delivery Confirmation) and they didn't reply to any of my attempts - at least 7 letters - except with 2 exact same form letters saying "We need more information, please call or fax us". Even though they didnt ask for it, I figured they'd want a letter of hardship and income info so I faxed and mailed them the letter along with paystubs and an income statement. No reply. Meanwhile I never rec'd that certified mailing so I started to think the mortgage co halted foreclosure as they could see I was sending them materials trying to work something out. I checked local papers every day and could not find any auction ad. Then the day of the supposed auction came and people showed up. No one got out of their cars and everyone was gone in 10 minutes. No one talked to one another so I don't know what on earth happened. I was prepared to go out and intercede since according to the laws in my state the auction would be invalid as I never received the certified mailing or saw the auction ad(s). As the homeowner I have every right to bid on my own property but I wasn't given the option because up until that day I didn't even know if it was happening or not! About an hour after the auction I received a fax from an actual person at the mortgage co saying they wanted my phone # to work on my case...I notified them AGAIN that I don't have a working phone. That's been it. So now I have no idea what's going on. I'm 8+ months pregnant with my 4th child. I've notified the mortgage co of this and they apparently don't give a rat's a** and can't be bothered to let me know if they are doing something or if they halted foreclosure as I requested or what. Right now I'm in total limbo. What do I do? Every real estate person I've talked to is more than happy to assist me in short-sale, every lawyer wants to help me file chapter 13....but I want to keep my house!!!! Are there any mortgage negotiators that are legit and yield results for people out in yahoo land? I just don't know where to turn...I feel like no one has my best interests in mind and are only interested in making money off me one way or another. What do I do? It can't be legal or ethical for these people to operate like this and keep people totally in the dark! A. Don't pretend to know anything about me. I have been making monthly mortgage payments which is why this is a suprise. I sent them over $1400 days before I rec'd the atty letter. I've contacted them in the past and was told they would put the past-due amount on the back end of the mortgage and that was it, then a few months later my statements are showing a balance due and a past due balance in the thousands. I've talked to several people there in the past at various points that cant keep track of anything their fellow associates setup. B.) I did not "refuse" the mailing whatsoever. I signed the green card USPS left that it could be left at my home. USPS took the green card and never left the mailing. The law verbatim: "No notice shall be valid or effective unless the mortgagor has been mailed written notice of the time and place of sale by certified mail return receipt requested at the address of the real estate...at least thirty (30) days for individual consumer mortgagors